How To Tell If a Guy is Into You

Here goes the OLD liner from the ladies..."How do I tell if a guy is into me?

Although most will look for the normal signs, such as him phoning when he says he will, or grabbing a box of chocolates for you, there are many important signs that we don't pay attention to.

Such as, does he listen to you when you speak, or does he just nod his head, while finishing your sentences for you, munching down on a burger?

When someone is interested in you, he is interested in the ALL of you, even if it is just another story of how bad your day at work was. He will never tire from your stories. You will get eye contact, feedback, the occasional smile, or even a frown, which you need to prove that he actually cares about what you are talking about.

IMPORTANT SIGNS TO WATCH OUT FOR

1.Does he talk to YOU? Communication is key to a lasting relationship, and many men have problems opening up, and talking about their fears, or even their desires. However, if your the one he calls to rant, and rave about his canceled night with the boys,the stress at work,the business idea that he has or his wish to end poverty, you can take that as a good sign.

2.Have you met his friends? When someone is into you, they want to show you off to the world. They are proud to have you under their arm, and can't wait to parade you around their friends that they have been bragging about you to. Also, if you do meet them, how do THEY treat you. A man's friends will always have the inside scoop, so if they are disrespectful, or don't even have the slightest clue what your name is, take that as a bad thing. Be sure you take note of how HE treats you in front of them as well. Does he suddenly start calling you "buddy" or neglecting to hold your hand in front of them? If so, double think your situation.

3.Has he introduced you to his family? Is his mother already talking about what your children will look like? Being introduced to the family by a man may not seem like a big deal, but for many, it is the make or break. They will usually let you meet when they decide that they really do like you, and want a second opinion from people they trust. If you have been together for a while, and there has been no mention of a trip to mama's for some fried chicken, and collared greens, then there may be a family he doesn't want you to find out about; like one where he's the head of the household, and his wife is reading my soon to come article about "How to find out if your spouse is cheating."

4.Does he pay attention to things you like? Last, but most certainly not least,  If you have mentioned that your favorite colour is pink for the last four months, and the guy shows up with a blue rose, it may not seem like that big of a deal, until you realize that simple things are usually what makes us most happy. Please thank him for the blue rose, but before it wilts, find someone else to replace it with a beautiful, pink one.....

Smile ladies and open your eyes wide!!!

James